I’ve always had a complicated relationship with super-productive people. You know the wake up at 5am to take a run and still remain uber-cheerful type! On one hand, I admire what they can accomplish in a 24-hour period- and how well they do it. On the other hand, my own insecurities flare up around them... Continue Reading →
Pandemic Premiers: Savoring the First Time
Florists prune flowers to optimize their growth and beauty. Farmers burn their fields to help new crops thrive in a fresh environment. The act of discarding the old and starting anew in order to flourish is part of the cycle of life. It’s also one way to view the collective pause and reset we have... Continue Reading →
The Mis(sed) Adventures of a Mediocre Millennial
Few people make those top 30 under 30 or 40 under 40 lists. When I recently read an email from my alma mater requesting nominations for one of these elusive awards, I felt a bit triggered. Not everyone is recognized as a shining star at work, in their family or on a public stage. Many... Continue Reading →
The Upside of Envy
Photo by Nikolett Emmert from Pexels How could hearing good news set someone down a spiral of despair and self-pity? Well Suitie, when the good news ain’t for or about you, it can be quite easy! Several weeks ago, two friends told me they were starting new jobs. Another shared spicy details of a new... Continue Reading →
Finding the Missing Peace
The human experience revolves around habits. We struggle to create new ones and fight to break old ones. Sometimes we revert to those that are not so good for us and lack consistency to continue those that benefit us. Our innate need for rituals, routines, and structure is often in tension with our love of... Continue Reading →
To Be Honest or To Tell The Truth: The Art of Authenticity
The truth shall set you free is one of my guiding mantras. And yet I sway between being open and maintaining a little mystery. Don’t get it twisted now, I am not dishonest. I just discern what, when and with whom I share certain information. We all speak hard truths to ourselves, but we may... Continue Reading →